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Once we accept that women might actually expect pleasure from sex, the transactional view collapses. And with it goes the gatekeeper model of consent. We need a better one, one that gives us the tools to deal with encounters such as Grace and Ansari's. Grace says that Ansari "ignored clear non-verbal cues.

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A number of different models have been proposed, which we call inter-relational models of consent. These include ideas such as "affirmative consent," "contextual consent," and "enthusiastic consent. By affirming that women might actually be in it for pleasure, they encourage a man to ask himself whether, during this particular encounter, his sexual partner is actually enjoying herself.

If Aziz Ansari had asked this question, things would surely have gone very differently that evening. We have closed comments on this story for legal reasons or for abuse.

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